Author Archives: Joy Breslauer

GREAT FALLS NATIVE RECALLS AFTERMATH OF BOSTON BOMBING

The view from Sara Graybill's dorm room at 9:30 a.m. on the Emerson College campus in downtown Boston. Courtesy photo

Emerson College Freshman Sara Graybill lives just three blocks away from the site of the Boston Marathon bombings. She gave this interview to Great Falls KRTV last week and was the subject of this article in the Great Falls Tribune.

CHICKEN SOUP CHALLENGE

Well, we’ve had the battle of the Matzoh Brie and the brisket, and the what-makes-the-best-latkes debate. Inspired by Student Rabbi Miriam Farber’s sermon, I thought it might be fun to propose a Chicken Soup Challenge. What makes the best Jewish penicillin, that stuff of legend and lore? How do you get that great chicken flavor, that perfect texture, that delicate balance of vegetables and herbs and flavorful broth, that steaming bowl of goodness memories are made of and rhapsodic essays are written about, the comfort kids come home to from far flung places, the tried-and-true recipe that brings a tear to many a young bride’s eye when her husband says, “That’s not how Mom used to make it.” Please submit your top secret recipes. We promise we’ll keep them to ourselves.

Joy Breslauer, editor@aitzchaim.com

AFTER DEATH … HOLINESS

EDITOR’S NOTE: This is the timely and insightful sermon which Student Rabbi Miriam Farber gave on Friday evening, April 19, repeated here for the benefit of the few who were there, and of the many who unfortunately were not there.

The local bookstore might be an endangered species, replaced by Amazon and e-books. But, if you find yourself in a Barnes and Noble, or even, imagine, an independent bookstore, somewhere in that shop is a shelf filled with Chicken Soup for the fill-in-the-blank Soul. Chicken Soup for the Teen Soul, Chicken Soup for the Jewish Soul, Chicken Soup for the Nurse’s Soul, Chicken Soup for the Cancer Survivor’s Soul – the list of titles goes on and on. Chicken soup, that delicious Jewish penicillin, able to fix any ailment, physical or emotional, is now available in book form to provide sustenance, inspiration, and healing.

There are so many places to turn to when we need comfort. As Jews, as the People of the Book, chicken soup in book-form makes sense. Our own sources – the Torah, the prayerbook, the libraries full of the Jewish wisdom of the ages – provide comfort and healing. When we said Mi Shebeirach a few moments ago, we drew strength from the Torah itself. Chicken soup in its literal form makes sense to us too. Comfort food, whether it is chicken soup, mashed potatoes, ice cream, or whatever dish works for you, is a physical response to our emotional pain. On Monday afternoon, after a harrowing day of watching the news and avidly scanning social media, waiting for my friends in Boston to check in – I turned off the TV, went into the kitchen, and felt calmer making dinner than I had all day.

Our tradition offers us many options for how to respond at times of tragedy and trauma, whether a personal loss or a shared communal event. We have prayers and mourning rituals, and we seek the wisdom of those throughout our history who have struggled with the same questions and struggles we face now.

Our double Torah portion this week is called Acharei Mot-Kedoshim. Acharei Mot occurs immediately after the death of Aaron’s sons. The opening words of the portion, which give the parasha its name, mean, “After the death.” The other half of our double parasha, Kedoshim, falls at the center of the Torah. It consists of the Holiness Code, two chapters filled with laws guiding us in our human relationships. The Holiness Code lays out how to build a holy society. The word Kedoshim means holy, appearing at the beginning of Leviticus 19: Kedoshim tihyu – You, the people of Israel, shall be holy.
Acharei Mot-Kedoshim. After death…holiness. After moments of trauma and fear, our tradition teaches us, through the juxtaposition of these two portions, that we must respond with acts of holiness and kindness towards our neighbors, towards strangers, to continue to build a holy society, even at the time when that holiness seems least attainable.

The stories of acts of kindness in the past several days have almost blocked out the blackness of Monday’s tragedy. First responders, including medical personnel who only expected to treat dehydrated runners, ran towards the explosions, saving countless lives. They took to heart the words we find in our Torah portion this week, “Lo ta’amod al dam rei’echa – do not stand idly by the blood of your neighbor.” Marathon runners, physically exhausted from the exertion of running 26 miles, kept on running past the finish line, to give blood at Boston’s hospitals, embodying the value that pikuach nefesh, saving a life, takes precedence over everything else. Over one thousand Boston residents opened up their homes to host marathon runners from all over the world who found themselves without a place to sleep on Monday night. These generous hosts taught us what it might mean to fulfill the commandment, “When a stranger resides with you in your land, you shall not wrong him…you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” ’doshim tih’yu ki kadosh ani Adonai Eloheichem. You shall be holy, for I, Adonai your God, am holy. Our human capacity to do holy acts is a result of our creation b’tzelem Elohim, in the image of God.

Earlier tonight, in the Gevurot, we praised God as the someich noflim – the Lifter of the fallen and as the rofei cholim – the Healer of the sick. We credit God with these acts of kindness, but perhaps God acts through us, through the human hands that reach out to lift someone off the ground, through the wisdom of human doctors and nurses, through the human arms that embrace the person who just needs an understanding hug, through the human shoulders upon which the bereaved cry.

The Talmud teaches, “Just as God clothes the naked, so should you; just as God visited the sick, so should you, just as God comforted the mourners, so should you; and just as God buried the dead, so should you.”

Rabbi Shai Held adds, “Just as God is present when people are vulnerable and suffering, so should we be.” We are holy when we act in the ways that God acts, when we run to do our small part to build a holy civilization.

What does it mean for us to be present with suffering, to run towards tragedy, rather than in the opposite direction? For us, this week, it doesn’t need to mean getting on the next flight to Boston or West, Texas, or being glued to the unceasing news coverage that has marked this week. Instead, perhaps the way that we become kedoshim, holy, is through remembering that our holy acts are needed all the time, not only at times of national tragedy. Kedoshim offers two chapters full of ideas for bringing God’s holiness into the world every day, starting with honoring one’s parents and celebrating Shabbat.

Rabbi Rachel Barenblat teaches us what this might look like, writing, “God is in the friend who offers to hold a newborn so its exhausted mother can take a shower and get some sleep. God is in those who gather for shiva so the mourner can say kaddish in the presence of a minyan. God is in the friend who makes a pasta salad and brings it to the home of a woman whose husband has slipped a disc and can’t get out of bed. God is in the parent who rocks a sick child in the middle of the night. We find God in our acts of love for one another.”

These everyday acts of kindness bring God into the world, healing, slowly, our brokenness. Kedoshim is the Torah portion at the very center of the Torah. And at the very center of Kedoshim is the most simple, yet most difficult commandment: V’ahavta l’reyacha kamocha – Love your neighbor as yourself. Rabbi Hillel taught that this verse is the ENTIRE Torah – all the rest is commentary. The rest of the Torah teaches us how to love our neighbors, giving us concrete tasks to do, whether at a time of tragedy or on any old Thursday, those tasks of caring for the sick and feeding the caregivers, of being present with people when they are most vulnerable.

Rabbi Yitz Greenberg, in an essay in which he struggles with belief in God after the Holocaust, declares, “Faith is living life in the presence of the Redeemer, even when the world is unredeemed.” Rabbi Greenberg suggests that there might be moments of redemption, even if we have not yet achieved a complete redemption for the entire world. Even at our darkest moments, when we lose our faith in humanity, in God, and in ourselves, we still hold onto the belief that redemption is possible, and even near. We search for those moments of redemption, sparks of light and hope that illuminate the dark night of helplessness and despair.

May we reach beyond our own brokenness and pain to make God’s presence felt in our world, by using our hands to ease the pain of the sick, our words to comfort the suffering, and our ears to listen to the voices of the scared. Y’varcheinu Adonai v’yish’m’reinu – May God bless us and protect us.

A MOTHER’S WISDOM IN SCHUL

EDITOR’S NOTE: Since we are having a visit from Student Rabbi Miriam Farber this week end, I thought I’d include this little informational tidbit.

After Sabbath services were over, Rabbi Cohen is met at the shul door by Golda and her young son Sheldon.

“Rabbi,” says Golda, “I’m sorry my Sheldon was so noisy during your sermon.”
“That’s OK, Golda,” says Rabbi Cohen. “Rabbis are also parents and we understand the problem. But do tell me: how you managed to get him to keep quiet.”

“It was quite easy rabbi,” replies Golda. “Fifteen minutes into your sermon, I leaned over to Sheldon and whispered in his ear, ‘Sheldon, listen to me carefully. If you don’t stop making such a noise, Rabbi Cohen is going to lose his place in his sermon, and if he looses his place, he will have to start his sermon all over again!’

URJ: INTERGENERATIONAL SURVEY OF THE AMERICAN JEWISH COMMUNITY

We invite you to participate in an important new intergenerational survey of the American Jewish community.

This national survey was created by Dr. David Elcott, the Henry and Marilyn Taub Professor of Practice in Public Service and Leadership at New York University’s Wagner Graduate School of Public Service, and Stuart Himmelfarb, CEO and co-founder of B3/The Jewish Boomer Platform. Please note that all responses are confidential.

Your responses will help us better understand people’s attitudes, activities and plans.

The survey covers all four adult generational groups (Millennials, Gen X-ers, Boomers and WWII/Greatest), so if you’re over 18, we hope to hear from you.

Please go to https://www.research.net/s/F682HKD, to take the survey.

We think you will find the survey interesting and quick; we know it will be a helpful new resource for us all. We also encourage you to share the link with members of your community to gather a wider sample from which to learn about the various generational groups.

Thank you!
Rabbi Victor S. Appell
Congregational Marketing Director
Union for Reform Judaism
212-650-4144

MAZAL TOV! IT’S A BOY!

Dear Friends,
With Gratitude to Hashem we are pleased to announce that as of earlier today, a precious newborn baby boy has joined our family.

As the adoption process is a lenghty one, the Bris of our baby son will take place on Monday at 1:30 PM in Baltimore, MD. If you can make it, we’d be honored, if not, we hope you can join us for the celebration we will host for him in Montana sometime soon.

Baby Boy Bruk has a registry at http://www.Diapers.com
We are very excited to welcome this new addition to our family and look forward to raising him to Torah, Chupah and good deeds.
May we share in each others Simchos.
May we be collectively blessed with joy in our families and share happy occasions together.
Rabbi Chaim, Chavie, Chaya and Zeesy

PROUD TO BE A JEW

EDITOR’S NOTE: I found this very moving. Look out, Max. This is a hard act to follow.
Read more about Rabbi Leonid Feldman at
http://www.bethelwpb.com/rabbi-leonid-feldman.html
or
http://articles.sun-sentinel.com/2013-03-07/news/fl-rabbi-feldman-20130306_1_bar-mitzvah-coming-of-age-ceremony-jewish-boys-and-girls

A TRIBUTE TO MARGARET THATCHER

Contributed by Karen Semple, who says:
I understand people have different political points of view; however, this is an inspiring tribute to the late Margaret Thatcher that tells a little-known story about her part in saving an Austrian girl during WWII.

http://www.aish.com/ci/s/A-Tribute-to-Margaret-Thatcher.html
B’Shalom,
Karen Semple

REFUSE TO BE A VICTIM — CLASS AT THE GREAT FALLS LIBRARY

EDITOR’S NOTE: Karen Semple has asked us to distribute the following information.

Below is a flier for a very good class that you may wish to share with the Great Falls Jewish Community. I know it’s on a Saturday, but it is a VERY excellent class with a lot of good info put on by an experienced NRA Instructor. Lots of good demonstrations!

Safety experts agree the single most important step toward ensuring your personal safety
is making the conscious decision to Refuse To Be A Victim®. You stand a much better
chance of preventing criminal attack if you develop a safety plan before you need it.
That is why the National Rifle Association is offering the Refuse To Be A Victim®crime
prevention seminar.
The seminar teaches easy-to-understand methods you can use to increase awareness and
prevent criminal confrontation. In just three hours, you will get the tools you need to
develop your own personal safety strategy, including information about:
The Psychology of the Criminal Mind
Personal Awareness Strategies
Home & Phone Security
Automobile & Travel Security
Personal & Technological Security
Self-Defense Devices and Training Options
Attendees receive a student manual, handouts, and a resource CD
Date: Saturday, May 11th
Time: 2-5:45PM
Location: Great Falls Library; Large Meeting Room;301 2nd Avenue North, Great Falls
Cost: $20/person or $60/agency or close family for 4+ attendees.
Open to all with an interest in crime prevention
To register or for more information, call 422.5019 ; Pre-registration
is requested. To register: go to
http://www.nrainstructors.org/searchcourse.aspx. Choose: NRA
Refuse To..; Choose: Montana, Click: search. Then register.

STUDENT RABBI MIRIAM FARBER’S VISIT TO GREAT FALLS IS THIS FRIDAY, APRIL 19!

Student Rabbi Miriam Farber’s next visit to Great Falls is fast approaching. 

Todah Robah to the following congregation members who have offered their hospitality to Rabbi Miriam Farber the week end of April 19.

  • Friday, April 19: Airport pickup for Student Rabbi Miriam Farber – Marty Foxman
  • Friday evening dinner host(s) – Gary and Mimi Wolf
  • Friday evening Oneg – Laura Weiss
  • Saturday, April 20: lunch after adult study – Stephen Boyd

There will be Kabalaat Shabbat services Friday evening at 7:30 P.M. at The Bethel, and an adult study time at 10:00 A.M. Saturday morning, April 20, also at The Bethel.

There will also be a milchig (dairy) potluck at the Bethel on Saturday evening at 5:30 P.M., followed by adult discussion.  Please bring a dairy dish to share.

Student Rabbi Miriam Farber’s final visit of 5773 will be the week end of May 10, Mother’s Day week end.

Shabbat Shalom,
Joy Breslauer and Aaron Weissman, editor@aitzchaim.com