Category Archives: October
BOARD MEETING HIGHLIGHTS
Aitz Chaim Board Meeting Minutes
Sunday, 9/28 at 2pm at Celtic Cowboy
Attending were board members Aaron, Laura, Stephen, and Helen, and Joy, Aitz Chaim coeditor. We thought that the change in venue to a fun restaurant like the Celtic Cowboy was a good idea. However, it turned out that they have live music on Sunday afternoons, which was an impediment to our discussion. We thought another location for future meetings would be preferable.
- TREASURER’S REPORT
- CEMETERY
- HANNUKAH PARTY: We will check with Stuart to find out if he will still host it, and dates that will work.
- SCHEDULE FOR REMAINDER OF THIS YEAR
- EMPTY SLOT ON BOARD: We agreed to keep this slot open while we wait for a member to ask to join the board.
1) Accepted as submitted. However, an additional $650 was still payable to HUC from the rabbi program last year. That check will be sent this week, reducing the income from last year to $200. We noted that the income from the Passover seder was $200, and that profit was almost entirely due to guests and non-members attending the Seder. We decided to continue inviting a smaller group of non-members and guests to the Seder, as long as the majority of attendees are Jewish.
2) BETHEL BUILDING FUND
Bethel Lutheran Church is having a building fund and intends to make significant changes to our space, including moving our storage area in the building to an interior wall that will not be as subject to outside cold. We decided to double our annual rent for the year and send Bethel an additional $350. We did this with the understanding that our total income for last year was only $200.
3) PASSOVER SEDER
We agreed to continue having the Seder at Clark and Lewies. Due to congregational schedules, we decided to have the seder this year on 4/3/15 (First night) to avoid a conflict with the Showdown Mannequin Jump, which Aaron, Steve and Max are committed to attending. If the Thares are unavailable, we thought that Tuesday, 4/7/15 would be an acceptable alternative evening. Hanna, Sarah and Max have been asked to lead the seder this year.
1) We discussed the desire for a fence at the Mt. Olivet cemetery, and what the congregation might do to facilitate it.
2) We discussed upkeep and maintenance of the cemetery, and some possible changes concerning future burials there.
3) What is the correct amount to charge for burials at Eaton Road? We thought that $500.00 was a number which will allow us some funds for ongoing maintenance of the cemetery.
4) Max Weissman’s eagle project will likely be this Spring, and he would like to do fence repairs at the Eaton Road cemetery, as well as graveling in a parking area, and perhaps the road.
1) Rabbi Meriam will come during the weekend of November 21, 2014.
2) We will not schedule a March service this year due to costs and lack of attendance; however, we will try to have a Friday night Purim party and/or movie night in March. We would like this to be on 3/6/15.
3) We would like to have a Shavuos weekend during the weekend of 5/23/15. If Meriam is not available, perhaps we could ask Ruz to return.
YAHRZEITS — OCTOBER, 2014
RAM’S HORN POLICY FOR LISTING YAHRZEIT MEMORIALS:!
Yahrzeit memorials are listed by consecutive Gregorian month, date, and year, if known, or at the beginning of the list for one calendar year following the date of passing.
Compiled by Aitz Chaim over many years, this Yahrzeit list is maintained by the Ram’s Horn. Please send any corrections or additions to editor@aitzchaim.com
May the source of peace send peace to all who mourn, and comfort to all who are bereaved.
| Name of Deceased |
English Date of Passing | Hebrew Date of Passing | Deceased Relationship to Congregant |
| Ann Cohn | Oct 4, 1987 | 11 Tishrei, 5748 | Mother of Arlyne Reichert |
| Irving Fineman | Oct 12, 1981 | 14 Tishrei, 5742 | Uncle of Jerry Weissman |
| Vicki Sherick Hawkesworth | Oct 12, 2013 | 9 Cheshvan, 5774 | Daughter of Jack and Diane Sherick |
| Roberto Naduris | Oct 14, 1995 | 20 Tishrei, 5756 | Husband of Susan Weissman |
| Carl Kotler | Oct 15, 1993 | 30 Tishrei, 5754 | |
| Hattye Oppenhemer Meyer | Oct 16, 1968 | 24 Tishrei, 5729 | Grandmother of Diane Sherick |
| Pauline Nagel | Oct 16, 2000 | 17 Tishrei, 5761 | Mother of Meriam Nagel |
| Robert Klotzman | Oct 17, 1995 | 23 Tishrei, 5756 | |
| Alex Barrett | Oct 18, 1990 | 29 Tishrei, 5751 | Father of Nadyne Weissman |
| Mary Wright Shaugnessy | Oct 26, 1976 | 2 Chesvan, 5737 | Mother of Rose Gran |
| Marvin Langsam | Oct 27, 2013 | 23 Cheshvan, 5774 | Brother of Helen Cherry |
| Celia Ross | Oct 30, 1972 | 22 Cheshvan, 5733 | Great-grandmother of Cece Drew |
| Queenie Crombie | Oct 30, 1992 | 3 Cheshvan, 5753 | Mother of Arleen Heintzelman |
BREAKING THE FAST
Here is what we have so far for the Break The Fast milchig (dairy) meal next Saturday evening, October 4, 2014, after Neilah. Please let Helen know what you might like to bring, or just bring whatever you think is missing. this is not an all-inclusive list.
- A couple of salads
- Guacamole
- Drinks
- at least one pasta dish
- Possibly fish
- Spanakopita
We still need:
- Appetizers
- Vegetables
- Dairy Main Dishes
- Desserts
- Drinks
Thank you.
YOM KIPPUR HOSPITALITY
Todah Robah to the following Congregation members who have offered their hospitality to Morah Ruz Gulko for Yom Kippur:
- Friday, 10/03/2014: Airport pickup for Ruz Gulko: Marty Foxman
- Friday evening, 10/03/2014: Dinner hosts for Ruz Gulko: Aaron and Wendy Weissman
YOM KIPPUR SCHEDULE 2014
Please mark your calendars for these upcoming events.
Yom Kippur day schedule:
- Saturday, 10/04/2014, 10:00 A.M.-12:00 P.M.: Yom Kippur Morning services led by Morah Ruz Gulko at the Bethel.
- Saturday afternoon, 10/04/2014, 12:00-3:00 P.M.: Break
- Saturday afternoon, 10/04/2014, 3:00-4:00 P.M.: Discussion.
- Saturday afternoon, 10/04/2014, 4:30-5:30 P.M.: Yizkor
- Saturday afternoon, 10/04/2014, 5:30-6:15 P.M.: Neilah
- Saturday evening, 10/04/2014, 6:30 P.M.: Break the Fast Potluck, traditionally dairy (milchig.)
The address of the Bethel is 1009 18th Avenue Southwest. click here for map and directions.
SAD NEWS
Marvin Langsam, brother of Helen Cherry, died three days after his 72nd birthday near the end of October, 2013, in San Francisco. In a recent e-mail to me, Helen said, “Several members of Aitz Chaim knew my brother. He was a kind soul who never said a bad word about anyone. I miss him very much.” She suggested that donations be made to Aitz Chaim in his memory.
OBITUARY FROM THE GREAT FALLS TRIBUNE
Vicki Claire Sherick Hawkesworth
Seneca, SC —Vicki Claire Sherick Hawkesworth, 47, of Seneca, South Carolina won her battle with cancer on October 12, 2013. She exuded a positive attitude and strength through all she endured, becoming a role model to all.
Vicki was an elementary school teacher and was passionate about helping all children reach their potential. Recently she taught at Oakway Intermediate School in Westminster, SC. She loved family, traveling, Scouting, and playing games.
She earned a BS in Elementary Education from Montana State University in 1988. While in college, Vicki was the president of Alpha Omicron Pi sorority and was recognized as the top president in the United States. In 2010, Vicki earned her Masters of Education from Clemson University.
Vicki is survived by her husband, Scot and children Jake, 17 and Rachel, 16, her parents Jack and Diane Sherick of Great Falls, MT, and brother Mike and sister Heidi and families. She has 11 nieces and nephews.
Funeral services will be held at St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church, 170 Bountyland Rd, Seneca, SC at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, October 19. In lieu of flowers, Vicki requested that donations be made to the Boy Scouts of America, the Girl Scouts or Susan G. Komen for the Cure .
Published in Great Falls Tribune on Oct. 18, 2013
LET’S BUILD A PHONE TREE!
It has crossed my mind that not everyone has access to the newsletter, and sometimes things happen too quickly to publish. So some of us thought it might be a good idea to re-establish a phone tree, where a caller calls one or two people and they each call one or two people and pretty soon everyone knows what’s going on — if someone needs help, if there is a birth or death in the family, if there is a happy occasion to be celebrated, if we want to plan a surprise for someone … — the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination.
If you are interested in participating in the phone tree, please call Meriam Nagel or e-mail editor@aitzchaim.com Thank you.
MORE ABOUT THANKSGIVUKKAH
Hanukkah and Thanksgiving Take Place at the Same Time This Year, So Celebrate Thanksgivukkah
John Farrier
From Neatorama
In 167 B.C.E., Antiochus IV Epiphanes, the ruler of the Seleucid Empire, tried to compel the Jews in Judah to give up their religious customs and values. They rose up in rebellion for seven years in what became known as the Maccabean Revolt. Once they liberated Jerusalem, they set about purifying the Temple. This eight day event is marked by the Jewish festival of Hanukkah.
This year, Hanukkah lasts from November 27 to December 5. The American Christian (albeit secularized) holiday of Thanksgiving marks a 1621 feast celebrated by the colonists at Plymouth, Massachusetts. It falls on November 28 this year. For the first time since 1888, the two holidays overlap. Some Americans have taken to calling November 28 “Thanksgivukkah.” The event is inspiring creative responses among celebrants:
Not to be outdone is Asher Weintraub, a 9-year-old New Yorker who has created what he dubs the Menurkey—a menorah, the candelabrum that is the centerpiece of the holiday, in the shape of a turkey. With help from his filmmaker parents, Asher funded his project with a successful $25,000 campaign on Kickstarter, a fundraising website, over the summer (it netted $48,345). The family is now hoping to sell as many as 2,500 of his creation in versions both ceramic (for $150) and plaster ($50).
The Weintraubs are also expanding on the concept in other ways, from a Menurkey iPhone app to a Menurkey theme song. Sample lyric: “Thanksgiving and Hanukkah, come light the Menurkey. Once in a lifetime, the candles meet the turkey.”
Part of what’s driving the Thanksgivukkah fervor is that Hanukkah is a holiday “with room for creativity,” says Jennie Rivlin Roberts, founder of ModernTribe.com, an online store that specializes in contemporary Jewish items. Ms. Roberts own contribution? A game called No Limit Texas Dreidel that she started marketing in 2007—it is a modern take on the holiday pastime of spinning the dreidel, a kind of Hanukkah-themed top. […]
Synagogues and Jewish organizations are also joining in the Thanksgivukkah chorus. In Boston, Combined Jewish Philanthropies, a local fundraising group, has created a website, ThanksgivukkahBoston.com, to promote the holiday and suggest ways to celebrate it (one example: making Hanukkah-themed corn-husk dolls). As project director Jeff Levy explains, the occasion is too significant to go unheeded. “This is like the new millennium,” he says.
At Temple Beth Sholom in Santa Ana, Calif., synagogue member Hollis O’Brien, a caterer, is leading a Thanksgivukkah cooking class at the end of October, replete with recipe tips for such hybridized holiday dishes as sweet-potato latkes and a Jewish-style brisket with a cranberry glaze. And since doughnuts are also popular at Hanukkah as part of the holiday’s emphasis on oil and fried foods, Ms. O’Brien has plans to showcase them as well. “Usually, I fill them with strawberry jelly, but this year, I’m going to use pumpkin cream,” she says.
Published: Friday, 11 Oct 2013 | 9:20 AM ETBy: Ben Popken
Jim Seida | NBC
Hanukkah and Thanksgiving mashup to create ‘Thanksgivukkah’
Chefs prepare a special “Thanksgivukkah” menu in the kitchen at Kutsher’s Tribeca in New York City to celebrate the rare convergence of Hanukkah and Thanksgiving.In a once-in-a-lifetime convergence of calendars, Hanukkah and Thanksgiving fall on the same day this year. But rather than choose between which holiday to celebrate, some families are saying “more please” to both. That means sweet potato latkes and challah-stuffed turkey is getting served up beside a cornucopia overflowing with chocolate gelt, lit by the flickering of a turkey-shaped menorah.
Happy “Thanksgivukkah!”
Because the Jewish and Gregorian calendars aren’t calculated the same way, Hanukkah shows up at a different times each year. Usually the eight-day Jewish Festival of Lights happens in December, but this year, it falls on Turkey Day. The convergence has only happened once before, in 1888, and won’t be seen again until 2070 and again in 2165, according to calculations by Jonathan Mizrahi, a quantum physicist at the Sandia National Laboratories in New Mexico. After that, the two holidays aren’t set to overlap until 76,695.
So if you ever wondered what turkey would taste like if it had a little more “schmaltz” — rendered chicken fat, a staple of traditional Jewish cuisine —— this is the year.
Trish Meyers, a 41-year old stay-at-home mom in Brandon, Fla., already has in mind to put together eight turkey-shaped tapers in her house to create a crossover menorah. She was brought up Christian and her husband is Jewish. Normally the Meyerses and their two daughters, 12 and 19, observe Hanukkah at home, and then visit family for Thanksgiving. This year, they’re hosting both for all 20 guests. It will be the first time Trish’s side of the family has experienced a Hanukkah celebration.
Besides dreidel spinning and songs, bourbon sweet potato kugel, cranberry brisket sliders and challah-stuffed turkey are on order, combining cuisines from both menus into single dishes.
Meyers sees the stories of the Maccabees and Pilgrims as natural compliments.
“They were both being religiously persecuted,” she said, “both celebrate overcoming a struggle…and being thankful.”
Not to mention, “both involve an incredible amount of food,” said Scott Goldshine, general manager of Zabar’s specialty Jewish and luxury food store. The combined demand will definitely leave his workers tired at the end of the week, he said. “We’ve been discussing the whole thing for months, everyone is concerned.”
In the kitchen at Kutsher’s Tribeca in New York City, flames sprang over pan-fried turkey and a sous-chef ladled schmaltz on chopped challah stuffing. Owner Zach Kutsher said dinner reservations are already filling the books for its special “Thanksgivukkah” menu. The three-course meal features sliced turkey and brisket, sweet potato latkes with sour cream and cranberry compote, pumpkin shlishkes, cranberry-raspberry jelly-filled sufganiyot with chocolate “gelt” sauce, cheesy spaetzle kugel, and challah chestnut stuffing.
Instead of individual composed plates, the dishes will be served family style, said Kutsher, to encourage his diners to say, “Oh can you pass this,” just like at home.
Food purveyors aren’t the only ones getting in on the entrepreneurial action surrounding the holiday combo.
A 9-year old boy from New York City invented the “Menurkey” and raised $48,000 on Kickstarter to get production going for his Turkey-shaped menorah. There’s also greeting cards, posters, and a Woodstock-inspired T-shirt featuring a turkey on a guitar neck proclaiming “8 Days of Light, Liberty, & Latkes.”
Synagogues are also joining in the fun. At the Temple Isiah in Los Angeles, Cantor Tifani Coyot is writing Thanksgivukkah mashups for the choir to sing the Friday night after Thanksgiving, mixing together lyrics between traditional Jewish songs and spirituals that have a theme of giving thanks.
“We’re trying to bring in some themes of gratitude and giving thanks into the Shabbat service Friday night and combine the values of both holidays,” said Coyot.
However, the combined celebration poses the threat of a jam for businesses trying to accommodate both holidays.
Amtrak spokesman Cliff Cole said the day before Thanksgiving is usually their busiest day of travel, which is also the start of the eight nights of Hanukkah. “We encourage those who are planning on using Amtrak for the Thanksgiving/Hanukkah holidays to reserve their seats well in advance of their departure dates,” said Cole.
Families looking to save travel hassle might be well advised to leave that Tuesday, said Tom Parsons, CEO of bestfares.com. For those flying, leaving the Monday before and coming back the following week on a Tuesday you’ll find the lowest fares and fewest crowds.
Meanwhile, Goldshine said his customers at Zabar’s have been peppering him with questions about how the store will handle serving both celebrations at once.
“They’re all nervous. ‘Are you going to do one or the other?’ We’re going to do them both,” said Goldshine. “It’s a great week for us — and a terrible week.”
—By NBC TODAY.com’s Ben Popken.
