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HELPING SMALL JEWISH CONGREGATIONS HONOR THEIR PAST WHILE PLANNING FOR THEIR FUTURES: JCLP NEWSLETTER, SPRING, 2020

JCLP The Legacy Spring 2020 http://www.jclproject.org

Dear Friends,
The apocryphal Chinese curse “May you live in interesting times” is sometimes misattributed as a Yiddish expression.
Whether Chinese or Yiddish or something else, there’s no denying that our times are unprecedented.

JCLP cares about its community of congregations. No one should feel alone. Thanks to The Union for Reform Judaism and The United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, two of our national partners, we shared online and streaming resources in order to provide spiritual comfort and guidance during the early days of finding ourselves coping with an unsettled present and hoping for a stable future.

Each day brings changes. Rabbi David Lyon, Senior Rabbi of Congregation Beth Israel in Houston and JCLP Board Member, encourages heeding words of the Psalmist and the Sages that are both timely and timeless. They are worth keeping in mind when the status quo has been upended:

When God seems far away, Psalm 139
When you feel discouraged, Psalm 40
When you are lonely or fearful, Psalm 23
When you want courage for your task, Joshua 1
When people fail or disappoint you, Psalm 27
When you feel that you’re in danger, Psalm 91
When you feel sad or despairing, Psalm 34

One Tree of Life Torah is now in Brazil and another is in the Philippines. That placement ended up being what might be called bashert since Kulanu was unaware of the Thalkars’ intensely felt connection to that country. Their son and daughter-in-law spent three years in the Philippines as Peace Corps Volunteers, returned to be married on the island of Bohol, and were back for a visit just last year. The Thalkar family longs for and will treasure the moment when they can again travel to the Philippines and join in a service with the community now reading from a Torah steeped in the history of the Oil City, Pennsylvania, Jewish community.

Additional regional planning meetings are being developed to bring like communities together to share their experiences. Congregations continue to navigate the planning process. Jewish life continues to comfort and sustain.

This edition of The Legacy introduces one of our first members of the board, the wonderful Etta Raye Hirsch, tells about precious Torahs being transferred from one generation to the next, and relates the story of a man whose collection of gold coins was a surprise source of a donation.

If you choose to join the foundations and individuals continuing to support JCLP as the only organization working exclusively on behalf of historic, small-town Jewish communities, please consider a donation.

Even though we may be separated by circumstances and distance,
JCLP embraces each of you as part of one community—Klal Yisrael—and we hope for your health and safety always but especially now.

We wish you a sweet Passover, however outside of the usual this year’s celebrations might be.

Sincerely,

Noah Levine,
Senior Vice President, JCLP

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MEET ETTA RAYE HIRSCH, MEMBER OF THE BOARD
Mention the name Etta Raye Hirsch in Atlanta and expect to see smiles and hear appreciation for the sunny and energetic woman who was honored last spring as Philanthropist of the Year by the local chapter of The Association of Fundraising Professionals.

Etta Raye was born and raised on a farm in Pulaski, a small Tennessee town 75 miles from Nashville also known as the birthplace of the Ku Klux Klan. Even without a synagogue in the town, Jewish heritage was an integral part of her upbringing.

She is a tireless supporter of charitable organizations in Atlanta, both in the Jewish community and also those benefiting the general public. Her contributions have supported programs that care for vulnerable populations, such as those facing illness, children with special needs, the elderly, immigrants, and the homeless.

Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta has celebrated Etta Raye for “passion for people and Jewish education and a life lived with an exceptional level of menschlickeit (humanity).” Their children and grandchildren follow the philanthropic path she and her late husband, Henry, set out with the Henry and Etta Raye Hirsch Heritage Foundation.

Etta Raye has served on many boards in the Atlanta region and has the busy schedule of someone who gives both time and money to causes she cares about.

So why become one of the initial board members of the Jewish Community Legacy Project?

“I am Jewish and from a small town,” she says. “When I first heard about JCLP I felt the importance of the project. The small town congregations served by JCLP are real and important and no one else is helping them the way that JCLP does.”
“The Jewish Community Project touched my heart,” she adds.

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FROM PENNSYLVANIA AND WITHIN TO THE PHILIPPINES AND BEYOND
Jewish settlers arrived in Oil City, Pennsylvania, shortly after discovery of the eponymous fossil fuel in nearby Titusville in 1859 led to the development of the petroleum industry in the northeast corner of the state.

In 1892, Tree of Life Synagogue was founded and—much like similar synagogues in other small towns—was a spiritual, social, and educational center throughout its existence. The synagogue flourished through the 1920s but began to decline in the post-World War II years.

By the end of the 2010s, Tree of Life’s and its leaders Barry Lang and Menahem and Tania Thalkar, acknowledged that the community had dwindled to the point where the remaining few members could no longer sustain the building. The halls now resonate with the sound of children in pre-school and after-school programs since the building was sold to the local YMCA.

In addition to the sale of the building, Tree of Life had historic Torahs and other religious articles that needed new homes. For the Torahs, JCLP made a connection with Kulanu, an organization that supports isolated, emerging, and returning Jewish communities around the world.

One Tree of Life Torah is now in Brazil and another is in the Philippines. That placement ended up being what might be called bashert since Kulanu was unaware of the Thalkar intensely felt connection to that country via their son and daughter-in-law who spent three years there as Peace Corps Volunteers, returned to be married on the island of Bohol and were back for a visit just last year. The Thalkar family longs for and will treasure the moment when they can again travel to the Philippines and join in a service with the community now reading from a Torah steeped in the history of Oil City, Pennsylvania.

A Torah from a different part of the state will soon be used for worship in a new home within the state. Beth Sholom Congregation, a small but robust historic community in Johnstown, worked with JCLP to facilitate the gift of this sacred scroll to Hillel at Gettysburg College. JCLP responds to the needs of its communities with specificity.

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OLEAN JEWISH COMMUNITY HELPS OTHERS LIKE IT
Everyone in town knew Joe Bear.
His job with the municipal government of Olean, New York, earned him the title “Mr. Public Works.” He was a stalwart of the Olean Jewish community from the very beginning, even though the association that eventually turned into his beloved Temple B’Nai Israel formed 14 years before his birth in 1912.
The B’Nai Israel building is a dramatic structure built in 1929 in what is known as Moorish style, with a massive arched terra cotta portal encircling a round stained glass window. It is now listed on the National Register of Historic Places.

Faith and spirituality informed Joe Bear’s life and he was a lifelong and very involved member of the temple. He taught religious school classes and was also an officer. On Yom Kippur he was known for sitting in the foyer all day. Many people called him “Rabbi.”

He and his wife had no children. They provided hospitality for Temple B’Nai Israel’s ordained visiting rabbis and were always the model of Jewish lives lived honestly and openly. He was a singular figure and especially devoted to the synagogue after his wife’s death in 1982.

Joe Bear was a dapper dresser with a penchant for hats, a proudly patriotic WW II veteran, and a collector.
One of those collections recently became the source of the Joseph Bear Fund at JCLP.

He was ill for a number of years before his death in 2009. The Olean Jewish community gave him emotional support during that time and his memory is a treasured one.

Like many similar communities, Temple B’Nai Israel has dealt with changing demographics and declining membership. The congregation’s engagement with JCLP laid the groundwork for a legacy plan that included the recent sale of the building to a local community theater group, the transfer of a Torah to a youth camp in Northern California with a connection to four generations of B’Nai Israel members, and attention to the religious life of members still in Olean among other considerations.

“JCLP was instrumental in what was a long and detailed task,” says Marcia Storch, one of the B’Nai Israel leaders who worked with JCLP, “and one that was without a fee.”
She adds, “JCLP is a blessed process.”
Marcia Storch was also a confidante of Joe Bear and overseer of his estate. When a late inventory of his possessions uncovered a collection of gold coins, it was a clear choice to sell them to benefit the Jewish life he cherished.

Funds from the sale of Joe Bear’s long-ago collected treasure joined contributions to JCLP from other former and present B’Nai Israel members who feel affection for small-town American Jewish life, and value how JCLP’s kind and objective counsel can help comparable communities.

WILL WE BE HAVING OUR SEDER? SONG PARODY BY BARBARA SARSHIK

Will We Be Having Our Seder?
To the tune of “Will you still love me tomorrow” by Carole King and Jerry Goffin

I’m feeling grumpy and grouchy
So tell me please, Dr. Fauci,
Can my friends come for matzah and maror?
Will we be having our Seder?

Is there a Pesach exemption
So we can mark our redemption?
And must Elijah stay outside my door?
Will we be having our Seder?

Bridge
I should be shopping for brisket.
I should clean up my dining room.
But I’m not sure I should risk it.
Would a night with my crowd spell doom?

I know we have to be wary
In times so scrambled and scary.
So tell me now what April has in store.
Will we be having our Seder?

Lyrics by Barbara Sarshik, Copyright 2020

You’ll find many more songs, along with a complete Seder songbook, at http://www.passoversongparodies.com. All of these songs are freely available. Share them with your family, friends, and religious congregations. Make copies for everyone at your Seder and post them on social media. Happy Pesach, everyone! Barbara Sarshik

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TIPS FOR YOUR SEDER PLATE AND DOWNLOAD OUR FAVES, FROM WWW.HAGGADOT.COM

How do you solve a problem like the seder plate?
Whether you’re replacing the shank bone or adding some new foods, we’ve got plenty of ideas – including ginger, spices & more.

Getting creative with your virtual Seder plate

Favorite Content for 2020:

The Wandering is Over Haggadah
An updated version of Jewish Boston’s family-friendly and thought provoking seder

Comedy Seder
Because we need a laugh…

2020 Favorites Haggadah
An ongoing compilation of what’s new & relevant for your seder tables this year

Minimalist Haggadah
Get right to the point with a Haggadah that’s short & simple, yet filled with wisdom.

Coloring Book Haggadah
It’s a coloring book! It’s a haggadah!

Passover In The Time Of Covid-19
Because we had to…

Recommended Clips:
Building Your Mental Health Seder Plate

Jewish World Watch Second Seder Plate 2020

Embodying Passover With Jewish Yoga

Coloring Pages

Passover Song Parodies

Ready-to-print Haggadahs:

Moishe House London Reverse Seder

JewBelong Haggadah

JQ International LGBTQ Haggadah

Women’s Seder Favorites Activities, games, and songs for kids and teens.

A Seder for Young Children Videos, activities, and simple blessings for young children.

Friends Seder Haggadah A short, fun Haggadah for a friendly gathering.

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Greatest Hits 2011-2015

VIRTUAL PASSOVER

EDITOR’S NOTE: These days everything has gone virtual so that we may practice social distancing and flatten the curve of the COVID19 Coronavirus pandemic that has (temporarily, we hope) changed the way we interact with each other. You can probably pick your favorite place on the globe and they will have a virtual service streaming for the benefit of their local congregation. We have had to find creative ways to stay connected and keep our faith and traditions alive and well during this time of uncertainty. But we have survived many other times of trial, and working together to strengthen the ties that bind us together, we will survive this one stronger than ever.

Here is a suggestion from an email to Don and Helen Cherry from their daughter Karen.

… there are a number of virtual passover celebrations you can join on your computer. this is one from the Palo Alto JCC you can join. it is 4-5:15 on April 8th. Or maybe your local congregation wants to find one to do together. It seems a lot of the JCC’s and synagogues are offering these…

Click here for the Palo Alto virtual Pasover service

Submitted by Helen Cherry

A MESSAGE FROM NATALIE FISHER GUERIN

EDITOR’S NOTE: From an email sent to Jerry Weissman today from Natalie Fisher Guerin.

Jason just moved back to Shelby. He was between jobs in Boston and certainly no one is hiring now. I really pushed for him to get out of Boston. I fear that when folks who live paycheck to paycheck have no money, no food and people they love start dying, there will be riots in the streets. Of course he could have come to me but he has a much better chance of getting a job when this is all over in Montana. So Don rented a big vehicle, drove to Boston, packed him up and they just got back yesterday. I am so relieved.

David and family are fine in Virginia – actually Debbie had the virus but has recovered. She stayed at home, was sick 3-4 days but then the fever and cough stopped and she got her energy level back. By the time they were notified that her test was positive, she had already recovered.

Please feel free to update our friends in Great Falls that Jason is back in Shelby. Once the virus is over, he’ll figure out what’s next – if he wants to stay in Montana or where he’ll go – obviously where he can get a job. For now, he’s safe and that’s what I care about, of course.

Give my love to your family and all our extended family in Great Falls,

Natalie

Submitted by Jerry Weissman

YAHRZEITS — APRIL, 2020

RAM’S HORN POLICY FOR LISTING YAHRZEIT MEMORIALS:
Yahrzeit memorials are listed by consecutive Gregorian month, date, and year, if known, or at the beginning of the list for one calendar year following the date of passing.

Compiled by Aitz Chaim over many years, this list is maintained by the Ram’s Horn. Please send any corrections or additions to editor@aitzchaim.com
May the source of peace send peace to all who mourn, and may we be a comfort to all who are bereaved.

Name of
Deceased
English Date of Passing Hebrew Date of Passing Deceased Relationship to
Congregant
Charlotte Weiss Dec 28, 2019 30 Kislev, 5780 Mother of Laura Weiss
Heidi Jan Berger Jul 29, 2019 26 Tamuz, 5779 Ex-wife of Tom Berger, Wife of William Franklin Raley; Mother of Polly Lorien and Jake Berger
Blanche Stoll Gulko Jul 12, 2019 9 Tamuz, 5779 Mother of Rabbi Ruz Gulko
FRANCES WALTMAN Apr 1, 2018 16 Nisan, 5778 Mother of Marjorie Feldman
Sherri Estil Hopperstad Apr 4, 2003 2 Nisan, 5763
Sandra Albachari Apr 4, 2005 24 Adar II, 5765 Mother of Julie Nice
Margaret Breslauer Apr 6, 1969 18 Nisan, 5729 Mother of Bruce Breslauer
Sid Kelman Apr 6, 2003 4 Nisan, 5763 Brother-in-law of Evelyn Kelman
Naomi Bay Kaplan Apr 8, 2007 20 Nisan, 5767 Grandmother of Kai Nealis
Bill Hinton Apr 9, 2019 4 Nisan, 5779 Husband of Susan Hinton
Heidi Espelin Apr 11, 1986 2 Nisan, 5746 Sister of Dawn Schandelson
Esther Nagel Lyndon Apr 12, 2012 20 Nisan, 5772 Aunt of Meriam Nagel
Elaine Thall Apr 15, 2006 17 Nisan, 5766 Mother of Terry Thall
Maurice Weissman Apr 16, 1991 2 Iyyar, 5751 Father of Jerry Weissman
Janet Woodcock Getzenberg Apr 16, 2005 7 Nisan, 5765 Mother of Anne Getzenberg
Gary Cohn Apr 17, 1984 15 Nisan, 5744 Brother of Arlyne Reichert
Harry Wasserman Apr 19, 2003 17 Nisan, 5763 Father of Miriam Wolf
Irving Greenfield Apr 28, 2000 23 Nisan, 5760

YAHRZEITS — NISAN, 5780

RAM’S HORN POLICY FOR LISTING YAHRZEIT MEMORIALS:!
Yahrzeit memorials are listed by consecutive Hebrew month, date, and year, if known, or at the beginning of the list for one calendar year following the date of passing.

Compiled by Aitz Chaim over many years, this list is maintained by the Ram’s Horn. Please send any corrections or additions to editor@aitzchaim.com
May the source of peace send peace to all who mourn, and comfort to all who are bereaved.

Name of
Deceased
Hebrew Date of Passing Deceased Relationship to
Congregant
Charlotte Weiss 30 Kislev, 5780 Mother of Laura Weiss
Heidi Jan Berger 26 Tamuz, 5779 Ex-wife of Tom Berger, Wife of William Franklin Raley, Mother of Polly Lorien and Jake Berger
Blanche Stoll Gulko 9 Tamuz, 5779 Mother of Rabbi Ruz Gulko
Heidi Espelin 2 Nisan, 5746 Sister of Dawn Schandelson
Sherri Estil Hopperstad 2 Nisan, 5763
Lydia (Leah) Bailey 3 Nisan, 5777 Mother of Karen (Chaya) Semple
Sid Kelman 4 Nisan, 5763 Brother-in-law of Evelyn Kelman
Bill Hinton 4 Nisan, 5779 Husband of Susan Hinton
Morris Schandelson 10 Nisan, 5748 Father of Arnold Schandelson
Gary Cohn 15 Nisan, 5744 Brother of Arlyne Reichert
Elaine Thall 17 Nisan, 5766 Mother of Terry Thall
Harry Wasserman 17 Nisan, 5763 Father of Miriam Wolf
Margaret Slate Breslauer 18 Nisan, 5729 Mother of Bruce Breslauer
Esther Nagel Lyndon 20 Nisan, 5772 Aunt of Meriam Nagel
Naomi Bay Kaplan 20 Nisan, 5767 Grandmother of Kai Nealis
Irving Greenfield 23 Nisan, 5760

FILMS TO STREAM FROM GOOD DOCS

GOOD DOCS is still open during this difficult time. Our titles are available for online streaming for you to use remotely. We wish you, your families and communities safety and peace.

WHO WILL WRITE OUR HISTORY is a new documentary that tells the incredible story of a secret band of journalists, scholars and community leaders in the Warsaw Ghetto who set out to defeat Nazi lies and propaganda with pen and paper. The film mixes the writings of the Oyneg Shabes archive – the caches of writing and artifacts buried by these men and women – with new interviews, rarely seen footage and stunning dramatizations to transport viewers inside the Ghetto and into the lives of these courageous resistance fighters.
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FATHER’S KINGDOM
Civil rights pioneer Father Divine amassed thousands of followers with his movement dedicated to integration and communal living. Yet, scandal, suspicion, and racism led to clashes with the law and he has largely been written out of history because he dared to preach that he himself was an incarnation of God.
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GIFT
Inspired by Lewis Hyde’s The Gift: Creativity and the Artist in the Modern World, the film is a tribute to something that can’t be measured, counted, bought or sold. Exploring the parallels between artists’ work and a gift economy, it’s a reflection on the creative process and the reasons we “labour in service of our gifts.”
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TIME FOR ILHAN
Ilhan Omar, a young, hijab-wearing mother of three, takes on two formidable opponents in a highly contested race for a seat in the Minnesota State Legislature. If successful, she will become the first Somali-American lawmaker in the United States. A fresh and timely take on the old story of the American Dream.
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WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE NOW?
17 years after six American teens – from Catholic, Pagan, Jew, Muslim, Lakota & Buddhist backgrounds – shared their religious and spiritual struggles in a 2002 documentary, they return to share their surprising and deeply personal religious and spiritual journeys.

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